“For the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: ‘If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?’ And whenever the answer has been ‘No’ for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something. ” ~Steve Jobs
“You must be the change you wish to see in the world.” ~Mahatma Gandhi
“You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, ‘I lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.'” ~Eleanor Roosevelt
My online friend, and fellow blogger, Lisa at Re-Envisioning Lisa (and no, she is not my SO), wrote a post today entitled “Stepping Out of Your Comfort Zone.” Click on the link provided, to see her wondering for today.
We have both found our lives running along a somewhat paralleled course (both of us have lost a parent; both of us are finding frustrations in the workplace; both of us are trying to discover who we are now and where we fit; etc). We’re not alone in most of our musings about ourselves, our futures, our present. I know that there are many MANY out there who are feeling the same, all at different levels, and all handling it in different ways.
What’s important is that we are attempting to handle it, when way too many days all we’d like to do is stay in bed, turn off the phones, and pull the covers over our heads (I shouldn’t speak for Lisa, but in some of these cases I know she has stated the same feelings). That, though, accomplishes nothing, and only sinks our problems deeper into us, creating its own self generating whirlpool.
Questioning what I am supposed to be doing with my life has been an ongoing one. I don’t envy those who find a path and stick to it, but remain only because it’s secure, giving them little to no satisfaction or fulfillment (that was my father). I don’t envy anyone whose path has been for the big bucks and only what it can buy them.
So, I, too, am more than happy to step out of my comfort zone…I usually thrive in that, as I get bored easily doing the same old/same old.
What to do, is the question.
Posted on February 27, 2013, in Caring, counseling, Despair, Family, Fear, Friends, Inspiration, Meditations, Mindfulness, Spiritual, Support, Therapy, Uncategorized and tagged anxiety, coping, counseling, depression, focus, frustration, giving thanks, God, jobless, jobs, mental health, patience, rededication, searching for work, strength, Talking to God, unempolyment. Bookmark the permalink. 5 Comments.